Sbh. For the record I wasn't talking about a specific situation like yours or mine. But I wonder about the effect on self esteem. Do the WAW's know or care about the risk? I doubt it. This is where I have a big issue with the DB procesd. Yes you can "save" a marriage but at what cost?
I too am like you. I think I'm in the best shape of my life. I am a great dad. I don't drink, do drugs, am not physically or verbally abusive. I have a good job. Good sense of humor. Am giving and loving. But the only person I want that to matter to is on a differ level right now.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
