Harrier... That's why it's called "the fog"... There does not have to be OM to be in the fog. The think the "grass is greener"... Which we all know it usually isn't. So their thinking IS messed up. Especially when there is plenty of beautiful women lying in wait for a good man.

I agree that D is be an option based on circumstance. And we all have our breaking point. You will come to your breaking point and when you do, acting "as if" is no longer be an act. Thats the danger and risk a WAS takes each day they stay in their hurtful fog...

And usually at thay point control shifts...

As I have said in the past... "the person that cares the least has the most control."

Hang in there Harrier... For as long as you can. For as long as it's healthy.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012