Here's my vent for the day - H hogs the covers. LOL I have arranged them evenly, more on my side, more on his side, he always ends up with the most and I am cold on the outside edge. But, I ain't saying a word about it because once when I asked why he was still sleeping on the couch he told me because I always complained that he hogged the covers and told everyone about it! So mums the word, and I'll get another blanket just to hang over my edge of the bed. LOL
It still works best for my sitch to plant the seed when the ground is ready and let H do the watering. He talked about his dry itchy back and I said "remember when we gave each back rubs with oil and ...." of course he said "NO" but later that night was good.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.