W & I started counseling a while back. I began to realize the counselor seemed to be trying to help me get through to the end, which pissed me off. I told him it was clear that this was not marriage counseling, but individual couseling and had I know it was individual counseling, I would never have started. That was the last time I went... October 2010. So around that time I noticed W stopped going too... Then in Dec she started going again. My guess is for herself trying to "get through". I know she was on Lorazepam, but she stopped taking it. I'm guessing she's experiencing anxiety due to lack of money issues.
I happen to have a good job, and although she makes less than me, she has a job with potential too. Just wanted to note, there are no money issues.
Ok... So I doubt she's going to counseling because she regrets her decision to leave our M or anything directly related to me. Individual counseling for her.
Knowing that this counselor seems to be geared more toward getting me the acceptance stage and help me transition to the end, does anyone think it is a good idea for me to go back. I will admit, I'm still very angry and resentful, though I come a long way in not displaying it to W.
