Mila it is always difficult to think what should we do. My flesh wanted me to not give h a gift and to be bitter.

Again, I always took the high road and had a few gifts for my h. Nothing to extravagant. More like practical things I knew he wanted or needed.

I also too made his favorite cookies and treats. Now my h dissappeared during the Christmas holidays, so I gave them to him when he resurfaced.

I was always a balancing act. I always prayed and asked God how I should proceed as well.

Whatever you do, again have no expectations so you can still protect your heart.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"