you could always try the cheesy move like a quick hug or kiss or touch , then kinda laugh and say "oopps sorry felt right at the time", or "sorry, habit" then see what he says.
Might work, might not but you could try
Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12