I do have some questions; he is still not as affectionate as before and I don't know if I should initiate physical contact or not. We used to always kiss good bye and hold hands. I don't want to seem desperate but he would always initiate it so know would it be a 180 for me too some of the time?
He could feel a bit pressured, but IDK, I think you have to read body language, etc. Remember, baby steps.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!