Will pray for you. I understand, when my H went to visit OW, I was so distressed that I even ran a red light cause I was crying while driving and got a $520 ticket!

Do not let your imagination run wild. Sometimes, it is not as bad as we think.

YOu can try to be busy to get your mind off it, or again, you can just pull the covers over your head and cry at hoe, sometimes that is also helpful.

But do not forget to take care of your kids.

My D11, early in our sitch, once told me: "You have a problem, Mom, and I know its Dad. Dad has a problem too. Both of you are giving me a problem. You are not taking care of me..."

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go