JMO, but I have read some stories where the FB activity seems really high schoolish. She is trying hard to convince somebody that she's really living it up, that she's happy, etc. Maybe she's trying to convince herself.
A person who has self-convidene doesn't have to "prove" anything on FB, to friends, family, anyone. So, mark it down that she's not very confident.
Maybe that doesn't help your feelings at the moment, but try not to take the bait. Sure it hurts when friends stop speaking, but someday the truth will come out, and your "real" friends will be standing.....right there beside you.
I hate to see any woman talk trashy and talk about drinking, ect. It makes her look like anything but a lady. She is hurting herself.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
