Don't ask her anything- It will kill you I know- but dont
My Husband actually left me the first time with a huge mortgage and 4 kids in a town with no family and took the money with him as he moved right in with another woman! I know how u are feeling, I had to think about him sleeping in the bed with her ans sharing a home with her while he was still married to me. But when I pulled back and started GALing, it was on!! He went nuts asking where I was, why was I dressed nice, who was calling me since they heard we had seperated.
Let her talk ....she will learn, everybody has faults and issues. maybe one of these older guys has control issues, or they have wives themselves to cause problems
make yourself look better than them but do it for you not her.
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
