Positively moving forward

[newmama]

Awest--YOU WERE NOT BEING MEAN to stand up for yourself! We have to remember that the reality is they deeply betrayed us and were the "bad guys" in this sitch. (I mean that in the sense that they made way worse and hurtful destructive decisions by having an A than we did by neglecting needs that could have been fixed if we were given the chance. I am not saying that waywards are evil people who can't change or whatever...)

So how did your anniversary day go? Were you able to handle it ok?

I know what you mean about simplifying the facts a bit... I have been able to stop going over and over what happened as well. But I think that has come with the closure of the D. Well, things do pop up (like my dreams this week but I will explain that in my thread). STILL, by and large, I am not rehashing it and analyzing it. Does it mean we are healing?