I would have to get a job and start bein responsible for myself and taking care to not spend frivalously. I would have to start contributing fairly to the financial aspect of my childrens upbringing, and start taking every oppurtunity i can to spend time with my kids. Then i would have to work on getting a grip of my issues by eliminating their root causes, by holding down a job; getting in decent shape; getting over what she has done to me; and regaining some semblance of self confidence.
OOOOhhhhh,where you been girl? This board can use your experience and advice.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
