I think your idea of a frame is certainly nice, and enough. If you have to buy him a book, buy him a self help manual. LOL Christmas cookies? Let OW fix him his stinkin' cookies. You wouldn't want him to get the idea he was special, or anything, would you?
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011