I am no expert, but I would put her name on some presents.

My wifes birthday was in November, and my 5 y/o wanted to get her a bracelet with hearts, so when I took them shopping, I let him pick out what they wanted....it meant the world to my boys (it was not expensive, but more than I wanted to spend).

Not sure if that story has any meaning, but I guess I am trying to say it's all about the kids.

I hope this helps.

M-38
W-37
T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999)
S-5
S-2
Wife left 7/4/2010

"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?"
— Henry Rollins