Okay Mila, forgive me the slight hijack here, but Shantilly. If you have custody of your kids over Christmas, that doesn't include custody of the H, does it? Are you going with him over to his apartment when he takes the kids for Boxing Day? That should be comfortable. I understand you wanting to include him for Xmas for the kids sake, but three days???


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011