Doing 180, but Husband still researched D

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Harrier,
He had already told his atty we have been separated for a couple of months when in fact it's only going to be a month on Friday.
So I doubt his atty is going to believe him if he says it's been any longer than that.
I did read over the info docs his atty gave him & it says something along the lines of "do not lie and if we find out you did, your case will be dropped with all funds forfeited."
And yes, he's paying for all the atty fees, he wants the D, he can pay for it.

In all honesty I'm scared out of my mind what's going to happen to me, with me still trying to find a job, it feels as the D is moving up too fast.
He wants this D sped up because he just wants to get on with his life, as if he just wants to block out that the last 4 years never happened.
He even said, "why do you want to wait, do you think I'm going to change my mind or something, because I won't."
Then he went on to mock all the 180's I've done, which I had no idea he even noticed I was doing them since I'm doing them for myself.

It feels as if last night triggered something in him, I don't know if it was me getting ready to go out, because he made a point to come knock on my bathroom door to tell me he was going to the store.
He NEVER does that, it was so random.
Then his "hmmmm" response when I told him I was going Christmas shopping, add that to him telling me when I got home, "I was going to talk to you on Sunday, but I want to talk about this now" regarding the D.

And there is NO one else, this is ALL on him, there's no OW to lay blame on.
The D is his choice for his own reasons, reasons that I doubt I will ever fully know.
It seems as if he is intentionally doing whatever he can to keep his guard up around me, now any time he starts laughing with me, I can see the panic in his eyes as he catches himself & stops.
Just last night, as our conversation was winding down, we were talking about something & he said "oh my wife, Mrs. My Full Name" thinks this is funny that I said that, she's gotta be wearing a wire.
He then he grabbed/patted my hips & touched around my stomach to jokingly see if I was wearing a wire, then jumped back when it dawned on him what he was doing.
You would have thought I had shocked him, it was actually kind of funny.

He hasn't told his parents yet, I'm very close with his mom, should I tell them or should he?