Mila, I have been following your thread with interest. And now I will follow even more keenly. My H has done the same thing as yours. He is spending Xmas eve, xmas day and xmas night here and then the girls and him are heading to his house to celebrate boxing day with ow. Hate those custody laws but hey. this was so different to BD when he informed me the he and ow were going to have her kids and our kids for Xmas so they could all be together. You sound so calm I wish I were as detached, but then again working nights can make a soul very tired.
Oh and I found out today that he is also going to be here New Years Eve and New Years day.
Add to the fact he stays here 3 nights now to look after the girls while I work (starting tomorrow night that is) I wonder soemtimes if he is trying to sneak home.
Most likely not he's just confused. But ow H cheated on her (so she said) so surely she must be at least nervous about him choosing to be here with his family. Do some MLCers do this drive the ow mad until they walk?
ugh.
Mila good luck hope your roller coaster is slowing.
