My W was the same. When all this first started, she told me things like the wedding day was miserable, she was never happy a day in the marriage, etc. I looked through the wedding photos and the cards she wrote me during the M. Funny...she didn't seem miserable to me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
