Originally Posted By: SIC
At times I feel like things are going better and she's noticing and other times I feel like nothing has changed.


SIC you only have control over YOU.

Stop watching her watch you.

Just live my friend.

That is the only way through this. You'll get there.

Just live each day being the man you want to be.

If she sees that and wants it...

Then, well, that's great.

There is no other answer I'm afraid.

this is a long road. You've been through the hot burning fire part of it.

Step away from the flames.

You'll see things differently.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am