Mr. Bond,

I think he is going through MLC.

He has the classic signs and symptoms: Working out, buying expensive clothes, became health conscious, vain, always looking at himself in the mirror, happy when he gets compliments, feels frustrated about his achievements (he actually is very successful - he is a director in a biotech start-up, has publications, book chapters, etc.), feels we are in a financial bind(??) and blames me for it, saying its because he bought our house due to my desire for it (!) then of course his ego wanting and needing the adoration of a younger OW. He seems headed for depression. He has a family history of depression (mother) and also is the least liked by his family, as they never understood his stubborness and He is the most intelligent among his siblings.

He used to be such a family man, religious, straight-laced, and although always has had a tendency to be hedonistic in terms of food and wine. Its so sad to see someone like him going into MLC.


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go