MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

here's the rest of the story....

This AM he said he was going to use a free ticket to go to LA. He gave me his word that he was not going to go to the city in SoCal where OW is. He did not say though that he was not going to try to contact her, so for me that already was a red flag.

This then made me start thinking that since he was going to be there and might make a move to see OW, I might as well allow him to. Thats why I had all of the above questions. I am in the middle of work so had to make my questions brief.But everyone's response pointed out to that making me look like I could not hold on to my boundaries, so I held my tongue.

This afternoon, he calls me and said he is not going to push through. He sounded sort of relieved in a sense .... My guess is he tried to contact OW and she said no. True enough, when I checked our cellphone records, there were a couple of texts.I have a feeling now that he is on the road to accepting that OW does not want him, for some reason (maybe the tone of his voice? I have been very intutitive about his feelings n the past).

Now my dilemma is do I call him on this. Do I expose that I know he tried to break his NC promise? or do I just pretend I don't know anything and observe?

I am not freaked out, not even really hurt, as I know and accept that H is not really conscious or accepting of any feelings for me as of this moment.