I think you did exactly the right thing!

Tell him to put that energy into the M...

If he wants cloture, he can write a letter or email WITH YOU THERE!

If you ask me, he is trying to sustain any type of connection with OW.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012