When I did my boundary setting over the weekend with my H, he asked me if he could see OW one more time, as friends, in a sense for closure. I said no. Somehow, right now, its bugging me. I am thinking of telling hm to go ahead and have one last talk with her. I know OW does not want him, but he seems to still be in that last stages of hoping.
I don't know yet what my motives are: maybe I want him to be happier (he is depressed and sad, of course, and so distant), maybe I am a softie (I don't think so), maybe I just want him to face the truth (specially since I know from OW herself that she is not interested)....
Whatever it is, will it have any benefit? Will I just appear weak?
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
