Somethings bugging me: My H asked me for a compromise during the time I was setting boundaries: he wanted to have closure with OW, allegedly he felt that he abandoned her in terms of their friendship, and did not want her to feel that way, and wanted to see her one last time.
I said no, but right now, am thinking of letting him have one chance for closure, for some reason. Its bugging me today. I don't know why....maybe I am thinking he will be less irritiable? maybe I feel I was being unfair? maybe I am thinking I was not giving him freedom? One chance without the consequences, or will it make me seem weak?
Know me with a 2x4 please, I need some sense.....
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go