MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

Hi Pickle,
This is the weekend she's going, huh. I remember that from your old posts. I'm sorry, it will be rough, I passed through this kind of thing and it is the most painful of all. I even got a $500 ticket from running a red light cause my eyes were full of tears that weekend.
Your W is in the early stages of the OP phase, In retrospect I think it was not good that the meeting was postponed. Its hard to get into the twisted minds of our spouses but it seems like an affair must be played out with its own time, before they would think of even going back to us. I think in my H's case, the A was cut short prematurely, so he is still living in this fantasy world where he thinks he can still try to pursue and attract OW. Thats why I put in my boundaries. So far he is respecting them, but lets see.
The damage has been done for both our sitches, but it doesn't mean that it can't be repaired. But I guess our instinct for self preservation will always come into play and strengthen our defenses.