One last thing Sandi... This one weighs on my mind!

Do you STILL think of OM?

Do you feel you made a mistake by staying with H?

Do you miss OM?


I worry that my W may never really get over OM (even though it was only a 2-3 month relationship).

Do yuo really feel that you went to OM because of what you were missing in your R or because it was new and fun and exciting?

I sometimes wonder that even if I fill the void, there will still be a longing to explore...

Want a womans POV...


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012