Thanks Bond, I think this is true learning. Learning to be a better husband, father and person.
And the beauty is that even if your M DOES fall apart and things don't come together as you want, these lessons stay forever and help you form beautiful new future relationships.
And those future women and men will be soooo lucky to get the new "us". And our S will lose out...
Our S have no idea the growing and maturing that is going on with regard to the people on this board.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012