What happens to the WAS after D?

[AtTheEnd?]

I think I've entered the "friend" area. She's friendly enough, but almost assures me that we will be getting a D. Her attorney let her know that my attorney called and was wondering why they are dragging their feet. She says the D isn't the highest priority at the moment and has other things to take care of (house stuff, etc). Unless I'm in a hurry. I just told her where I stood, but not in a pleading manner. I don't want a divorce, but if that is what she wants, I won't stand in her way. She just remains silent. She knows that I'm different, but she won't budge. She needs to look inward, and she is refusing. I'm disappointed that she will have to go through another relationship at some point to realize what she lost, but that's typically the way these things unfold.

I know nice guys don't get the girl, but in the end, I feel that I did the right thing. I'm not going to play games, I'm only going to be myself (a good, upstanding, honest person). If that isn't enough for her, well that's the way it goes.