Mila I do think it's weird about leaving ow alone, but then again your h doesn't know what he really wants. Hence MLC = confusion.
Now my h would do the same thing for Thanksgiving. He would spend the day with us and then go live with ow. Now my h was lying all the way through his crisis. Not sure how he could do this, but in his own mind I guess he justified it. It tells me though these ow really don't mean anything to them.
Realistically, if these ow really meant the world to them they would pass on spending time with their family. Just my opinion though.
Your h sounds extremely depressed just like my h was throughout the entire crisis. Tears alone tells you how difficult this whole situation is for him let alone you too.
Good for you to take the high road!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"