The MLCer feels such entitlement. The LBS's feelings are not really even taken into consideration. I think that is why it's so hard to enforce boundaries with them, as it's all about them and what they want.
Mila is spot on when she talks about the selfishness of the MLCer. Whatever feels good at the time is what they do.
They are so deep within the tunnel that they don't even consider how their actions affect their own children. They're only looking for the next fix that might bring them happiness. Chasing an elusive dream when all they would have to do is stop and look within and deal with their issues. It takes them a long time to realize that, if ever.
