Trying to move forward....

[kissak]

Thanks Zenjypsy....I just saw your post.

Well, I dont think I handled things quite well last night. H took kids shopping to buy me a gift. I told him they had already ate supper. He texted me to remind me that my D wanted cookies for her party today. I texted him back, no answer. Standing waiting in the grocery store for an answer I decided to just call him. No answer on his personal phone, so I called his business cell phone, because I was sure he would have it on so that he could hear it. Well, he answered, I asked about his other phone, oh he didnt hear it...ok, he said they were eating supper....ok, that didnt sit well with me, I asked to speak with my daughter to ask about her cookies....she was acting odd too...well, then I knew he was with the OW, introducing my kids to her. D put her dad back on phone, I let him know how unhappy i was with him. He and I discussed him waiting...well he waited....a whole week. Jerk!

Ugh, I hung up, he of course texted me....said it was a last minute decision. Right. Im sure. Just once I wish my feelings would be considered, but I guess they never have been so why start now. I told him that It would have been so much easier for me if he had told me first. That way I werent caught off guard.

So, What I hate is that my kids come home, my son wants to talk about the OW and how she werent as ugly as in her pic, and her daughter was fun.

Now my daughter was upset that her dad seemed so much more playful with this womens daughter who is 16. She said "mom, dad never cuts up with me like that".

Then she goes to tell me that they had a food fight in the restaurant! Thats right, a food fight. He let the kids throw food at each other....ok, he would have never done that before, he was always fussing at my d to NOT eat with her fingers and here he is throwing food.

Who is this man?

So when he brings kids home, I dont even look at him, but try to be civil. I tried. I said nothing more to him about it.

Im just ticked off about it all!!! Why do this? My daughter even told him that her mom didnt want us introducing them to her yet....well his excuse "your mom said i shouldnt introduce you to ALOT of women".

Talk about splitting hairs......

Ugh!!!!!!!!!!