Thanks GAG and NM for your input! I plan to call H today and ask hime about Christmas...will throw and invite out there!

Funny thing, had a message from the Surgical Center for H to call them back on the machine when I got home. I didn't call him last night as I knew he'd be sleeping...then, this morning at 5:40am, they call wanting to know if he was coming for his "procedure". Asked me if he was here, I said no, then ask if I am his wife, I said yes (well, I am for now) so I gave them his cell #!!!

I just had the kids at the Dr on Monday and they had me update their info...surely, he has been asked to update his?

Anyway, planning a day of shopping...hope to get it finished!

WELCOME zengypsy!!! Sounds like you are in the right place! Sorry you are going thru this but you will find some pretty good ears, advice and friends here!

Others will find you easier if you start your own thread! You can copy and paste your post from here to it so you don't have to type it all out again!!! You will find a great support group here!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing