I completely understand about the financial stuff. I was just trying to show a different side to the coin, since I am on the other side. (I also turn the heat down to 60 when S is not home and even have the heat down at 65 when S is there).

Just remember financially that with the girls it is not the stuff you do or what you buy, but the time spent.

Have a good holiday season!

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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