All that I can do now is sit around waiting for her to let me know
What do you mean?
I am refering to you sitting around waiting for her to let you know something. I tend to speak bluntly at times, so please don't be offended by what I say. It is not attractive to her when she sees you appear to be helpless due to her control over you. I understand what you mean, however it's very important that you get out, get a life of your own, and do not appear to be helplessly standing around wringing hands and waiting to see her hand you the verdict.
If you would move forward as if you were making a new life, that would be much more postitve and attractive. You have to work at determining to think & act positive in the face of negitivity.
This is not a ploy to get her back, but for your own sake.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
