Well, it sounds like a good support group. I've never been to one, so I don't really know much about them. What do y'all help each other to do?
No, I am not working, but am considering some possibilities of selling handmade items online.
My H and S are doing well and looking forward to Christmas. We have a niece in the hospital, so it's a bit sad this year.
Would you consider speaking to your H only for a moment, about S and be pleasant. If you feel that going dark with him and not having any contact except for texting, is not helping, wouldn't that be worth a try? I don't think it could hurt at this point, do you? I know it's hard to swallow your pride and speak to a man who betrayed you (I know how you feel), but the first step is always the hardest.