I agree with GAG-- you said that you feel comfortable in your interactions, so it is ok with you to invite him (without expectations--although OW might be pissed, lol!!!!) He will be sure to have flashbacks of good times, too! NOt that it is your intention, but it doesn't hurt.
Zengypsy--it is best if you start your own thread and you can get more support this way! CW IS SUPER NICE but the deal is that we each have our own thread for our own lives/issues and not tell our stories on another's thread. Just sayin! So go to the top and choose "New Topic" and create a subject line. Then copy and paste what you posted here.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004