XH is off his pedestal and I'm moving forward

[glamgirl]

Wow GAG, you go girl. Mila is right though, it took many many many months something like 6+ before my h just started to peek out of the tunnel.

I sent him nice e-mails no response. I cooked him his favorite meals maybe a thank you. I made his favorite desserts barely noticed. I picked him up things at the store hardly noticed. I had to keep asking God to just give me a sign that I should hang in there. God was so great and when I was at my lowest he would show me some sign to keep going and going and going.

Also, even when my h was flirty, we were having sex, going out on dates he STILL wasn't coming home. He didn't come home until I was finally done with the relationship, BUT I think that the foundation was laid for him to return by all the above and he didn't want our M end. Just my thoughts though!