I agree 100% with awest-- those things helped me too! As well as meeting new people(friends).

What is going on lately, lost? How are you interacting with your H and what are the plans for the holidays--I realized that you discussed (briefly) about splitting up Christmas but what was the conclusion? ANd you are right-- these next 2 weeks ARE BRUTAL. Hang in there, suppress your anger toward your H and express it on your thread so you can have a release.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004