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Oh crap, my turn now. My old lawyer emailed me saying "I'm receiving lots of communication from your wife's lawyer, please call me".

I guess she's moving forward with the D. The hair on my neck are standing up. ugh!


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
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((SR))

Remember your words to me- it's just a piece of paper. Nothing much will change whether you have it or not, but you keep focusing on yourself and DD.

I think you're right (or FM?) in that the worst is not to know. Plunging in and finding out what you're dealing with seems impossible, but will probably be somewhat of a relief b/c you won't be wondering and making stuff up anymore- you'll know what you're dealing with. Keep us posted. It helps me to keep (trying to) help you and my other friends, so yes I will keep posting to the extent I can.


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.
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Thanks J.

Yeah lots of green papers for her. I feel so blindsided and betrayed. It's hard to believe I trusted her so much. She wrote this to me a couple of days ago:

"Thanks and have a great weekend with DD!"

How can she be so two faced, by then she'd already started the process (apparently a couple of weeks ago). I guess I should've known, she acts nice and then does the most damaging things. She never discusses or talks about anything. Only confides in her friends never me.


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I want to ask her how she can do this to DD, splitting her up like this? DD still says things like 'daddy when we go camping next time and mommy's living with us...' etc.

She's the lovliest little thing and I get all choked up to think she won't be with STBXW and me together at the same time. I'm just so sad for my DD. I feel like I failed to give her what she needs and deserves.

I even sent STBXW an email this morning about the b.day plans yet she didn't even hint at anything.


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Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
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Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
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Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
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are you still on here? thought about you the other day and decided i would check in...


peace and serenity,
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kiki!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have no idea how excited I am to see you!

I've thought about you tons of times and I thought I'd never know how you are. I'm so sorry we lost touch. OldFool remembers you too- he stops by once in a while. How're you my friend? how's your little boy?


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
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