Do you think he goes out with you because you are the connection to S and because you "take care" of him? I hate hearing all of this for you. I am so sorry! Is it his first? If it isn't or he has a record of drinking, I am sure he will at least have to do mandatory AA.

I hope things go better. So so sorry.

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89