best of Luck AntoniaB....I am in your boat minus the divorce. He never pushed it, I did in Sept. Then I let go of all that when I was ready to accept him that he doesn't know what he is doing. You know what, honestly, I can't do it. It hurts too much. He still continues to lie, have secrets and I accidentally found him on Plenty of Fish looking for an easy going female and wanting a long term relationship. That was on Sunday, Nov. 21. To this day, he offers no apologies for being there. Meanwhile on Nov. 8th we celebrated our 30th anniversary. Too long & complicated a story. Anyway, all I know is I AM SO DONE. I cannot do this anymore. Life is short, I could die tomorrow and if I do, I want to die happy and not be concerned about him. I haven't gotten there 100% but I am working on it.
This is a rough road. I keep reading the philosophies on Buddhism and try to live it. Life is full of suffering of all kind, basically we have to learn how to deal with it.
Sharing my Favorite Life Quote - And after everything I've been through, I still rise.
