Congratulations! When the right time comes, even the words come easy. I too having dropped the rope recently have realized how letting go actually gives you power. Now the power my H had over me is gone, he knows that I am no longer afraid of him leaving me, that I can stand alone. In your case, I hope your WAW will realize soon enough what she will be missing and come round.
The dignity and self respect you gain actually alleviates the pain.
I think the what happens next is the difficult part. Be strong and keep posting.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
