Flying to exotic locations to meet her husband every few weeks for romantic adventures and returning home to nest with her new lover sounds like quite a nice arrangement for her.
How do you feel about it?
Exactly, more of the same crap. I'm not going to spend my time and energy thinking about making things fun and interesting for her. How will I feel when, for some reason, she can't make it and cancels at the last minute? No, she can read about all the fun I'm having instead.
I think I'll keep a journal and write an interesting report every week or two. I can include her in a general email that goes out to my long list of friends. She can sit around board with OM and question her decisions. This is my life and she chose not to be a part of it.