I think you missed my point. of course, you don't want admit that you might feel superior. Heck, my IC spotted it without me telling him. I am going by what you say in your posts. This struck me "You see, I drove her away. Not because I didn't love her, but because she is sooo difficult to live with." that to me smacks of I'm better than she is. Also you posting about about how things aren/t moving fast enough, you are the only one filling the love bucket, you have options out there, you think your IC is flirting with you, you think that she is playing a dangerous game because you can't wait forver and could become indifferent. I don't know, it just hit me. Much they way the things my IC said to me. This isn't an attacked on you, but a way for you to really get at the heart of things. You can't progress with this line of thinking as fast as you want. You just can't.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
