It is your account right, not hers? She doesn't contribute to it? Correct If she has the password, she can do far more than just look at it. I do not think so but possibly.
Your wife was upset and based upon the last time will likely be upset if you change the password, because it is controlling? It is NOT controlling, you did it or you're doing it because you don't trust her. I have never not trusted her except that she has left breaking our vows of being together in good times and bad.
It is a matter of trust not control, and right now, is she worthy of trust? Is she seeking to be trustworthy? Not sure of any of her intentions. But you are right i dont think she is doing it to seek my trust.
If no, then you have your answer.
Will it upset her? Well, she'll get upset, her choice.
It will be something she'll have to get over, and you're going to hear about it. It will be an issue when you guys talk. Possibly but we only talke about the baby right now and thats about it.
M - 42 W - 41 Married 9 years July 24, 2010 WAW moved out 8-9-10 2nd Marriage for Both S 2 SS 13 from W first Marriage