What happens to the WAS after D?

[soleil]

I can understand how both parties have changed, but if both WANT to work it out, I believe that it can.

Agree 100%. It takes TWO to work it out. And when one pereson isn't committed to doing that, there isn't anything you can do.

But yes, two people who want work on things and be together can do it.

I agree that the LBS has a totally different experience than the WAS.

D changes things. You are forced to grasp onto a new life for yourself that you never imagined. So yep, growth, forced growth, even, is inevitable.