But my therapist always tells me that many times in a marriage the person who feels like they are doing a lot of the work (in any regard) often takes on this idea of superiority.
I was guilty of this, still am at times. Especially in the role of the LBSer.
It is a hard habit to break, but it can be broken.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK