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I think that if your W initiates a "date"....then go on a date with her.

If your W initiates R talk......then have a R talk with her.

If your W wants to discuss the other people in your lives.....then discuss them.

You have let her know that you are "open" to spending time with her.


I am going to suggest that you add:

"If you want to and are capable of it." at the end of each of those sentances.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

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