I think that if your W initiates a "date"....then go on a date with her.
If your W initiates R talk......then have a R talk with her.
If your W wants to discuss the other people in your lives.....then discuss them.
You have let her know that you are "open" to spending time with her.
You start talking about "boundaries" and employing "tatics" and "techniques", she is going to be gone.
She is assessing YOU right now......let her.
Take what you "want" out of everything right now......if this thing moves forward (which will take TIME) there will be plenty of opportunity for you to state the things you "need" ie. boundaries.
Let her drive for a while....
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
