Edmond Dantes, you reminded me of something my wife had said during our last meeting. She said that her IC told her that now might be a good time to negotiate something with me. She went on to say that she needed to write some things down to be clear.
Is this part of the process? Is she talking about the settlement of assets or my commitment to do the dishes?
If she wasn't any clearer than that, she was probably teasing to get you to pursue her for information. I suggest you don't take the bait. If this 'negotiation' is important to her she will raise it again. On the other hand, don't be surprised if she says 'I was going to negotiate something with you before you decided not to see me but now...'. That kind of thing is pretty routine.
Good luck man. How are you holding out emotionally with the NC?
